Rabbi Moshe Taub
A Halachic Review of: Taanis Esther; Zecher L’Machatzis HaShekel; Megilla Reading(s); Matanot Levyonim; Shaloch Manos; Seudah
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Taanis Esther
Taanis Esther is a most unique fast.
As opposed to all other yearly Fasts, it is not overtly mentioned in verse or even in the Talmud/Midrash (the other rabbinical Fasts are mentioned in zechariah 8:19).
Any number of reasons is brought for our custom of Fasting on this day (see Rambam, hil. Taanis 5:5, inter alia).
For a complete history of this fast click here.
According to Kaballa the reason for this Fast is due to the following: as we know the original sin of the Purim story was our joining Seudat Achashveirosh, a party that was predicated on the mistaken belief that the Second Temple would not (soon) be rebuilt.
Food, then, became a central part of this story. Therefore, in remembrance of this fact, we both obligate ourselves in food with a Seudah on Purim day and abstain from food the day before. By doing so we do not only atone for our error in Persia, but also for our error of eating in the Garden of Eden (Shla; Bnei Yisaschar; Rav Chaim Vital)!
However, one isn’t to breech the customs of our heritage, however mysterious they may appear to us.
Yet, because this Fast is but a custom one should certainly not be overly stringent and must speak to a Rav if not feeling well, even slightly.
If Fasting will ruin a person’s Simcha on Purim, a Rav should be consulted.
A pregnant or nursing woman should not fast Taanis Esther.
Someone with severe migraines need not Fast Taanis Esther.
One who wishes to eat early in the morning before the Fast begins should state as such before going to bed the night before.
Zecher L’Machatzis HaShekel
There is a Minhag to give three ‘half’ coins to Tzedaka at some point during these days.
Most give this either before or after Mincha on Taanis Esther, while others do so on Purim before the Megilla reading.
A plate will be in the shul with these three coins (taped together).
PROCEDURE:
Place money or a check onto this plate having in mind to thereby purchase one of the few, taped, sets of three coins (the money/check may be of greater value than these coins’ worth!).
Then, the purchaser should lift up ‘his’ coins before donating them back to the same plate from which it was taken.
IMPORTANT NOTE:
One must be careful not to call this custom ‘Machatzis HaShekel’, rather “Zecher L’Machatzis HaShekel”, as it is but a remembrance.
Megilla Reading(s)
All adult Jews are obligated in reading/hearing the Megilla twice each Purim; once at night – from the emergence of stars until the morning; and once again during the day – from sunrise (netz) until sundown.
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Because these obligatory readings are ‘time/date-based/passing Mitzvos’, it is forbidden to eat a meal from the moment that each reading’s obligation begins (sundown, and sunup), other than a coffee or the like.
Indeed (see Rama 692:4 and commentaries), the laws of performing any subjective task before the Megilla Readings is uniquely strict when compared to other passing Mitzvos.
PROCEDURE:
NIGHT READING:
- One must listen to the three blessings, answer Amen, and be sure not to talk at all until the Megilla is completed.
- Sefardim should have in mind (as should he who is making the blessings) that this Shehechiyanu blessing be an umbrella blessing for all the mitzvos of Purim into the next day (i.e., the Mitzvos of Shaloch Manos and Seudah).
- Ashkanazim do not have these other Mitzvos in mind at the night leining, as they will be making another Shehechiyanu on the morning’s reading, and will have this in mind then.
- One is obligated to hear the entire Megilla.
- If one misses hearing a single word of the leining one should quickly make that up by quietly reading inside a printed Chumash until caught-up.
- If one ‘spaces out’ but hears every word they still fulfill their obligation according to most. (But don’t space out 😉
- It is best, halachicly, to hear the Megilla in a large crowd because the purpose of reading the Megilla is to publicize the Purim story.
- The poskim posit that for the needs of the sick, or, a helping spouse, a large reading may be missed (see Biur Halacha 690:18; Shaar Hatzion 687:10 with Aruch Hashulchan and Achronim)
- The reader needn’t know the meaning of the words, so long as he knows the major beats of the events in the Megillah
- One need not follow along inside the text and may rather simply listen.
- However, due to numbers 4-6, it is advisable to follow with a printed version. However, if one will focus more by listening, then this is all they should do. Although the Mishneh Berrura urges everyone have a Chumash/Megilla with which to follow along, it very well may be that in our generation of quick clicks and short attention spans, closing one’s eyes and listening my offer the less distracted experience. Each person is different, of course.
- A Kosher Megilla is an advantage, as then even if entire sections of the Megilla are missed, they may be madeup – and the listener caught-up – by simply reading from a Halachic Megilla.
Some contend that a Kosher Megilla serves additional advantages, such as listening while also reading along in a low whisper from his Megilla (audible enough so that at least he can hear). Then it may be deemed as if he both fulfilled the Mitzvah of listening to the Megilla in a large crowd, and also is deemed to have been the one to have read it (according the Chazon Ish; the Brisker Rav strongly disagrees, arguing that by reading it to oneself, he would lose the Pirsumei Nissei and Rav Am.
Matanot Levyonim
On Purim we give charity to whoever asks. Some contend that this is the origin of our masquerading-so those who may need some finical aid may ask without shame.
We also make sure to actively distribute funds on the day of Purim.
This latter act is termed Matanot Levyonim and is one the Mitzvos of Purim, along with a Seudah and Mishaloach Manos.
This Mitzvah is usually accomplished through giving funds to one’s Rav before or on Purim as he likely has a method of distributing on that day.
I our Shul, it is recommended that people send money to the Rabbi’s Discretionary Account, earmarked in Memo as ‘Matanot Levyonim’, before Purim.
Such checks should not be postdated for after Purim, if possible.
The minimum one must give is $1, preferably for each member of his-or-her household.
Of course, Kol HaMarbeh Meshubach/All who give more are praised!
Shaloch Manot
“Either friends like Job’s – or death” (Bava Basra 16b).
“If one has no friends, it is better he not be alive” (Rashi, ad loc. s.v. ooh chavrei)
Purim is a celebration of the living, of our nation surviving a physical threat. This is as opposed to Chanukah where our vulnerabilities were chiefly in the spiritual domain. This is the motivation behind Purim’s unique focus on the enjoyment of food, wine, friends, and gifts – as this day is a celebration of our physical existence and human survival (Levush; Rav Hirsch, etc.).
Friendship and camaraderie, being so paramount to the human condition, are therefore at the heart of Purim in general and the Mitzvah of Mishaloach Manos in particular.
As in all matters of importance, and certainly all matters of Halacha, there are rules governing this wonderful Mitzvah.
What follows are several of the fundamental Halachos relating to the performance of this Mitzvah.
- Every man, woman and child are required to give Shaloch Manos to at least one individual.
- Shaloch Manos must include at least two items of ready-to-eat either food or drink.
- One may send Shaloch Manos items that all have the same Beracha (e.g., a peach and an apple, or, a steak and a beer).
- Nevertheless, it is best if the two items sent are not of similar stock (e.g., apples and applesauce;) unless they are also of vastly different in taste or texture (e.g., rib steak and pepperoni, see R. Z.P. Frank in Mikroei Kodesh #38), although it is best to avoid even this. (Although I would accept rib steak and pepperoni! 😉
- This Mitzvah must be done Purim DAY (sunrise to sundown), not Purim night.
- If one sends it on the night of Purim they have not fulfilled their obligation (Rama).
- B’dieved (post facto) one can mail or ship Mishaloach Manos before Purim and have it arrive at the appropriate time.
- Someone in their twelve-months of mourning/kibbud av v’eim for his/her parents, or the thrity-days for other relatives, l’a, is still obligated in this mitzvah and should give Mishaloach Manos to a few close friends.
- Regarding this mourner receiving Mishaloach Manos, the reader should consult a rav.
However, in such cases, one may still give to the avel’s family.
The one exception to the above is one’s rav, rebbe, or the like. Since this is customary, one may give them Mishaloach Manos even should they be in. a state of aveilus, l’a (Divrei Malkiel).
- Some hold that Mishaloach Manos must be fulfilled through a shliach/messenger (shu”t Binyan Tzion).
This is a novel and minority opinion.
However, should one anyway be giving out multiple Misholach Manos, it is a fine idea to give at least one of these through a messenger so as to satisfy this opinion.
A child can be used for this purpose.
We must note that not only do many disagree with this view, some go as far as to say that if given through a Shliach/messenger it doesn’t count toward Shaloch Manos at all! (This is because the fostering of friendship is diminished with a messenger)
- Some are of the opinion that spouses, as well as children living at home and reliant on their parents for food etc., may fulfill this mitzvah through the giving of their spouse/parent.
(See Aruch HaShulchan 674:2. Either way, parents still carry the obligation of education their children in this Mitzvah).
- If the receiver of the Shaloch Manos is not home or available when brought, then so long as he will find it before the end of the day one would still fulfill their mitzvah; provided that the reciever will know from whom it came (Ksav Sofer).
– There is an American custom of giving “themed” Mishaloach Manos.
In some Kehillos, families can spend weeks preparing creative and/or elaborate set-ups and designs. ‘Deracheha Darchei Naom’/Her (the Torah’s) Ways Are Pleasant, and Torah should never become an unnecessary burden.
Although a simple Mishaloach Manos with sizable portions suffices, and although this new ‘theme’ Minhag can potentially lead to concern – we may suggest a virtuous origin for it: Some poskim rule that Mishaloach Manos must be worthy of the receiver (Biur Halacha 695 s.v. chayav). Based on this view, one would not fulfill his obligation giving a multi-billionaire a piece of fruit and a bottle of water, or, to a sitting president, a bag of potato chips and a V8 (I, however, LOVE V8, especially the spicy one! ;). Because of the bountiful blessings we all enjoy today relative to our not-so-distant past, simple common fruit may seem just, well, too common/pedestrian to elicit the needed special excitement and enhanced adoration by the receiver, and may then, therefore, not accomplish the goal of this Mitzvah (see Aruch HaShulchan ad loc. #15).
Based on this stricter approach, giving it some uniqueness fosters greater love/friendship, and may even be deemed worthy of display at the seudah (should that be this mitzvah’s purpose, see above).
While this may help explain this new minhag it is not meant as an endorsement of it, and one fulfills this mitzvah even if very simple.
Seudah
(Purim Day)
The climax of our Purim celebration is a joyous meal commemorated with friends and family.
- A Mourner should speak to a Rav as to how, where, and with whom to conduct this meal.
- One should make sure that they focus their joy toward Hashem and in the service of being thankful for our lives -through His Hashgacha.
- Torah, song, and Achdus (unity) should be the center of this meal and our celebratory atmosphere.
- There is an obligation on men to drink slightly more wine than during the year. This may be accomplished with a simple extra sip of wine, and according to many, the Ad D’lo Yada is a ceiling and not a floor.
- For those who can’t drink for whatever reason then for them there is no Mitzvah to drink wine on Purim. If they wish to fulfill this Mitzvah anyway, they should simply take a nap for a few minutes.
May we soon celebrate Purim in the era of Moshiach!
Wishing Everyone a Freilchin and Happy Purim!
Rabbi Moshe Taub
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Rabbi Moshe Taub is the rabbi of Young Israel of Holliswood and rabbinic editor and weekly contributor for Ami Magazine. He is the author of Jews in the World (Mosaica Press) and writes on Jewish law, history, and thought at ShulChronicles.com.


